Keeping in mind the adage, "After the first death, there is no other," I have a slightly different view of the Hiroshia/Nagasaki bombings.
I'm a descendant of a guy who was an F4-U Corsair pilot. His ship, USS Guadalcanal, was crusing towards Japan to participate in the invasion. As he explained it to us, when the Japanese heard he was coming, they surrendered. Perhaps a slight exaggeration, but there's a great likelihood he would not have survived the attack, so to me it's all very personal.
I'm sorry for those who died. I'm thankful for one in particular who did not.