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  1. Wish this were a more comprehensive picture of the movement. Having watched the episodes broadcast thusfar, it seems more a hstory of Cleve Jones's experience (one commentator described it as Milk 2). Then, the documentary is based on his writing. On a personal note, more than a few people who identified as bisexual were there, but you wouldn't know that from the story (Ken Jones's boyfriend might have been, yet the name for our identity isn't mentioned). But, that's pretty typical.

    Carping aside, any treatment of the movement on a broadcast network over multiple nights is worth celebrating.

  2. Hallways and Doors
    Bi Janus


    Thinking of how I decide
    Among many hallways
    Either go or stay
    What is this place between

    My place is the same 
    Between two or among
    Many, as when breath stops

    Suppose anxiety or its lack
    Puts me in a corridor
    Open doors frighten
    More than closed
    Against which I may
    Launch myself shoulder forward
    Demanding entrance comforts
    More than taking an offer

    Your offers bind me tighter
    Than my demands
    In as long as we have
    We will come to rest
    Between offer and demand

  3. If you're looking for jolly, you'd best skip this one!

     

    Two Thousand Plus Christyules

    Bi Janus

     

    Sorry for the mish-mash—

    the political creation,

    but we could not have sold

    the notion to Norse pagans

    without tacking on the berries.

    Only birth and death were signal.

     

    Your birth, heralded by massacre,

    set the tone for centuries since.

    I like the message a little bit—

    love, charity, meekness, the new law.

    I guess you couldn’t proscribe

    what they did to you after the cross.

     

    The product was weak without

    ducking death, mythographers

    sending you down for a day or three.

    I thought better of you as a corpse

    attending to the business of rot

    and not attending to triumph.

     

    But the Magi who set in train

    the massacre were searching

    for a King not a counselor.

    I would rather find Joseph’s kid

    working wood with his hands.

    Then there’s the feeling

     

    I have when looking at Carter

    newly arrived and a smiling

    behatted vessel for all our hopes.

    At least the power-brokers

    left you to your childhood

    and normal confusing journey.

     

    A million prayers an hour

    reach to your mother

    who seemingly knew

    what she had prepared

    for you and the centuries.

    I wonder though of her grief,

     

    The grief of a mother

    seeing her child

    surely dead in the straw,

    every moment of life

    tinged with man’s wish

    to wield God’s power.

     

    I know, I know—power

    and redemption and glory

    in which we all share,

    unless we’re bent but unbowed.

    I’ll hold powerless Carter when I may.

  4. Marion Pritchard, Righteous Among the Nations, who rescued Jewish children and adults in the Netherlands during the NAZI occupation, died on December 11 at 96. We have many who will do right when right is easy to do. In the days ahead, we could do with more people who will do right when doing right is difficult or dangerous.

     

    http://www.nytimes.com/2016/12/23/world/europe/marion-pritchard-rescuer-of-jews.html?hpw&rref=obituaries&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=well-region&region=bottom-well&WT.nav=bottom-well

  5. I think Buckley's version is remarkable. The greatness of the tune and the lyrics is shown by how many singers have covered the song. Among the unusual and wonderful covers is by Ari Hest. VWL and I had a discussion of this subject because I wrote in one of my stories that Antony Hegarty (now known as ANOHNI) had recorded it; this was a subtle suggestion, because although I wished that he (at the point I wrote, she used the pronoun, he) had; to this point she has not. Of all that he wrote, "Night Comes On" and "Bird on a Wire" are my favorites.

  6. Existentially, he's not mine either. Realistically, by the rules of our elections he certainly is. Short of armed rebellion, that won't change. In Portland, OR, mostly young people have taken to the streets with the cry of your subject line. They have blocked interstate highways at rush hour and vandalized private property. Having marched in the 60s and 70s for civil rights and against the war in Viet Nam, these actions seem like temper tantrums with no possible outcome except self-gratification.

    That said, I see Trump as Reagan minus the veneer of civility. I suspect his presidency will have the same results--increasing distribution of wealth to the top, increased national debt and deficit. I'm not sure that Trump has any better idea of the relationship between trees and forests than Reagan did. I survived Reagan (many friends dead of HIV-AIDS did not) and I will survive Trump. I hope we marshal our protest enrgy for what he may do, rather than what the country has done. ACTUP had the right idea.

  7. Tracy Chapman once wrote in a song ("Talkin' Bout a Revolution"), "Poor people gonna rise up and get their share." After eight years with an African-American president, white, largely racist, sexist, xenophobic, and homophobic white men were the ones who rose up. Make America great again as it was when all the groups they disdain knew their places.

  8. Here's the NYT article on the address:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2016/09/13/books/lionel-shriver-cultural-appropriation-brisbane-writers-festival.html?smprod=nytcore-ipad&smid=nytcore-ipad-share

    I've had a very few reader comments over the years that since I'm not really gay or married to a man, I shouldn't write characters that are. I have some empathy for minority authors, sexual or otherwise, who see themselves as disadvantaged in the marketplace, but I'm uncertain that preventing people from thinking or writing particular characters addresses that issue.

  9. This short memoir by a best-selling author relates his growing up gay and Jewish in Brooklyn in the 50s and 60s. He is a few years older than I am but roughly contemporaneous. He attempted suicide at 15 and ended up in a celebrity psychiatric clinic in New York. Most of the book is about his experiences at the clinic, which he relates with a wry sense of humor. His pain is clear, but so is his determination. It's a marvelous read.

    Part of what spoke to me in his look back was the remarkable differences between his experiences and mine. In the end and after he is out, he describes his sexuality as a complication, a word Ann and I often use in reference to mine. You can knock this one off in a few hours.

  10. Cole and Colin,

    So, is it permissible to use 'between' when placing someone or something in a physical relationship with more than two objects or people? I can only imagine myself between two people or objects. Walking in the forest, how can I be between four trees? As Mr. Orwell reminded us, precision in language can be protective.

    Rich

  11. Never paste from MS Word. Let's try again.

    Pronoun Imprecision

    with apologies to Colinian

    Ann and Richard were awake earlier than usual.

    "I'll get ready for work and go in early," they said.

    "Not me. I'm going to do some reading," they said.

    "Wasted time," it said.

    " Look, not everythem is as dedicated as they are," they said.

    "At least, do the breakfast dishes before they leave," themselves suggested.

    "Way to spoil a little leisure time," they said.

    They with longer hair said, "We're not feeling particularly feminine today."

    "Who cares?" they asked.

    "Which car are they taking?"

    "They'll take the Prius . They have to drive to Salem."

    "It guess It'll take the other one."

    With everythem in agreement, the morning started.

  12. Pronoun Imprecision

    with apologies to Colinian

    Ann and Richard were awake earlier than usual.

    Ill get ready for work and go in early, they said.

    Not, me. Im going to do some reading, they said.

    Wasted time, it said.

    Look, not everythem is as dedicated as they are, they said.

    At least, do the breakfast dishes before they leave, themselves suggested.

    Way to spoil a little stolen leisure time, they said.

    They with longer hair said, Were not feeling particularly feminine today.

    Who cares? they asked.

    Which car are they taking?

    Theyll take the Prius. They have to drive to Salem.

    It guesses, itll take the other one

    With everythem in agreement, the morning started.

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