Cole Parker
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I spoke to the b\f recently. He's asked me to keep tabs on you, so we're communicating on and off now and then occasionally.When it comes to erections, which do come up in conversation with him, him being that sort of fellow and all, it appears he has his work cut out for him these days. He says it's the heat, not the age of his partner that's the problem. I ask if heat rash is bothering anyone, and he says that might be, but he's diligently, assiduously even, rubbing in all sorts of lotions on the afflicted spot, or is it spots, and the thing seems to be dead.If it's a dead issue, quips I, then maybe it's dead tissue, too, but he promises me he'll keep trying, and even mentioned mouth to mouth, resuscitatingly, although that didn't seem quite right as it wasn't the mouth that seemed to have the heat rash.Anyway, I have to stop here because these converstations with him were quite tought-provoking, or at least provoking of these erections we were discussing, and I need to get back to that.C
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I figured, if it had anything at all to do with erecting anything, you'd be the one to come to.C
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Poetic license suspended?CGreat poem! Hmm... which makes me wonder... what do you call a 'poet's block'?A 'poet's block'?
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You thought you had a reputation?!Weird!C
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God, that last post was heartbreaking.
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I have no idea how that happened.And Des-- good advice.C
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Trab, I'm shocked! Really?Wow!I had no idea!<g>Way to go, man!C
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I've heard stories about cats like these, but they are always told by suspect people: cat lovers. I've had cats. I've had numerous cats. They've never wakened me by touching my nose. They've never sat down and had a good cry with me. They have done the aloof bit, the standoffish bit, the jumping up on things that won't support their weight bit, with the ensuing catastrophe, be it what it will.Dogs are loyal and faithful and loving, but that doesn't mean I need that, that I have a personality flaw that requires that kind of obeisance. I've found they're much easier to have as companions than cats. Cats go do their own things. Dogs come and join you, hoping they can help you do yours.Cats have their place. Dogs have theirs. I prefer dogs.C
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My God, you two! Don't you know, living is compromise? If bad breath in the moring is balanced against a great cuddle in the evening, isn't the one worth the other? As for the other bits, see a doctor for the apnea; there're things that can be done, things that work. If you don't like body contact, you can cuddle for a while, then roll apart when you're ready for sleep. If he's asleep, and you're gentle with your movement, it's very unlikely you'll awaken him. Or perhaps you need a king sized bed.And for sex with someone else, Trab, you probably haven't found the right partner, one who'll be patient and talk about likes and dislikes and will go very slowly and respond to your body language. Someone who cares about you, someone you care about, someone you trust. That makes it all work better. Best is someone who cares and you share a funnybone with. Sex and humor seem to go hand in hand, possibly because sex is sort of ridiculous when you think about it. Being able to giggle while groping adds a dimension of closeness that makes things better.But I'm writing like I know all the answers, and, as usual, it's easier for me to look at someone else's problems and ignore my own. So get back to your own business and ignore me. Bleary-eyed? Sounds like the apnea is disrupting his sleep as well as yours.C
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My God, you two! Don't you know, living is compromise? If bad breath in the moring is balanced against a great cuddle in the evening, isn't the one worth the other? As for the other bits, see a doctor for the apnea; there're things that can be done, things that work. If you don't like body contact, you can cuddle for a while, then roll apart when you're ready for sleep. If he's asleep, and you're gentle with your movement, it's very unlikely you'll awaken him. Or perhaps you need a king sized bed.And for sex with someone else, Trab, you probably haven't found the right partner, one who'll be patient and talk about likes and dislikes and will go very slowly and respond to your body language. Someone who cares about you, someone you care about, someone you trust. That makes it all work better. Best is someone who cares and you share a funnybone with. Sex and humor seem to go hand in hand, possibly because sex is sort of ridiculous when you think about it. Being able to giggle while groping adds a dimension of closeness that makes things better.But I'm writing like I know all the answers, and, as usual, it's easier for me to look at someone else's problems and ignore my own. So get back to your own business and ignore me. Bleary-eyed? Sounds like the apnea is disrupting his sleep as well as yours.C
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My God, you two! Don't you know, living is compromise? If bad breath in the moring is balanced against a great cuddle in the evening, isn't the one worth the other? As for the other bits, see a doctor for the apnea; there're things that can be done, things that work. If you don't like body contact, you can cuddle for a while, then roll apart when you're ready for sleep. If he's asleep, and you're gentle with your movement, it's very unlikely you'll awaken him. Or perhaps you need a king sized bed.And for sex with someone else, Trab, you probably haven't found the right partner, one who'll be patient and talk about likes and dislikes and will go very slowly and respond to your body language. Someone who cares about you, someone you care about, someone you trust. That makes it all work better. Best is someone who cares and you share a funnybone with. Sex and humor seem to go hand in hand, possibly because sex is sort of ridiculous when you think about it. Being able to giggle while groping adds a dimension of closeness that makes things better.But I'm writing like I know all the answers, and, as usual, it's easier for me to look at someone else's problems and ignore my own. So get back to your own business and ignore me. Bleary-eyed? Sounds like the apnea is disrupting his sleep as well as yours.C
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Des, you have a true gift for writing. You're stuff is wonderful.No, not that stuff. It might be, too, but methinks your wit is better. It certainly hasn't withered a bit with age.Great writing. A pleasure to read.And Trab, I've got one of those balls. I'm not sure it helps, however. I keep falling off the damned thing.C
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I'm not sure why, but I'm getting visions of men coming to visit you in your bedroom, and it being too damn hot, so while you do your cuddly-wuddly on the bed, writhing in a tangle of sheets and shorts, you b/f is standing like a native boy in 1940 films, pulling on a cord which controls ceiling drapes which fan you and keep you the body temperatues from reaching the boiling point.Of course, the b/f is unclothed in observance of the heat of the day and the heat of the bed, adding to the passion of the event.Is this how you see it, too?C
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Think dancing the two-step on a drum head, then double it, switch feet alternately, then substitute drumsticks for feet, and you come close.Aren't you glad you asked?CI'm too lazy to look it up: what's a paradiddle?
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What a great line! Wonderful!Nice image, too, when I think about it.CI have a special room. It's full of carefully adjusted carnival mirrors. It is useful for disproving those stupid spam emails I keep getting. -
You forgot to mention the basis for Kiss me Kate. I know you know, because the playwrite was almost Australian, I think. British is almost Australian, isn't it?Kiss me Kate was an adaptation of Taming of the Shrew. I won't disparage your knowledge by mentioning its author.You're mine to do with what I will? Well, wait a minute. I need to get some tips from Jason.C
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Does this mean, should I feel the need, I can get a quick fix of time travel any time I want by simply moving the little setting gizmo on the back of my clock to something other than what it now is? Cool!C
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It's too darn hot,It's too darn hot.I'd like to sup with my baby tonight,Fulfill the cup with my baby tonight.I'd like to sup with my baby tonight,Fulfill the cup with my baby tonight,But I ain't up to my baby tonight,'Cause it's too darn hot.It's too darn hot,It's too darn hot.I'd like to coo with my baby tonight,And pitch the woo with my baby tonight.I'd like to coo with my baby tonight,And pitch the woo with my baby tonight.But sister you'll fight my baby tonight'Cause it's too darn hot.It's too darn hot.Now, you being you, you'll know who worte this and what show it came from, and what author wrote the orginal material this show was based on and the name of that play. And, to make it even fairer, I didn't make up or paraphrase the lyrics you're reading, like someone whose name won't be mentioned to save him from abject humiliation, recently did.Your prize for getting this right won't have anything to do with sleeping with anyone. So there.C
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Maybe no compression, but lots of compassion from Trab. Lots of that.As for the misting, that sounds like the b/f's job to me. He's the one to strip you naked and mistify your parts.The thought is making me hot.CIt sits there and groans? Sounds like a bearing gone. No bearing, no compression, no compression, no evaporation, no evaporation, no cooling. That kind of heat can totally fry me. Regardless of a water shortage, I would need to sit there with my spray bottle with water, misting it over me continually. Also, a nice wet hat over your head will help, as the water slowly evaporates and cools you. Sweat bands on the wrists, soaked first, will also help. The last thing I'll tell you about is kinda private, but it really works well. Strip naked, sit with a fan blowing on your private parts, and keep spraying a mist on them. Take my word for it, it's better than all the other suggestions combined. Unless you are in a gay male residential compound, I'd recommend only doing this in the privacy of your own domicile. -
I'm still tyring to get used to a happy Jason. I've never seen this side before.I'm so pleased, guy. However long it lasts, which I hope is forever, you do have this feeling to remember.Go slowly. I think he's going to need a whole lot of support.C
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You just gave it away, so I don't even have to read your note tomorrow.I do know that show, but it must not be in a song lyric. I know the lyrics, not the spoken parts.C
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Des:I think you think we're all a lot more literary than we are. A lot more in touch with the Arts. That our erudition more closely matches your own than it really does.1964. I think that's about when Hello, Dolly came out. And Fiddler on the Roof. And Funny Girl. And probably several other less notable ones.But I don't know any of them well enough to know that line.Which I guess means I don't get to not sleep with you.C
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There's so much I'd like to say here, but it would all come across as negative just when you want to feel positive. And I wouldn't mean it to be negative, just informative. So the best thing I can do is simply smile and say well done.Except I can't. I have to say one thing. I have to. I can't stop myself.Neither one of you will know the other, and the relationship does'nt have a snowball's chance in hell, until to both take the huge risk of getting to know each other entirely sober. Both of you, at the same time.Do you think either one of you would be able to risk it?Okay, I'll butt out now.C
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You say she's not depressed, but from that point on, all your descriptions of her point towards depression.I think she should get some professional help. You're probably in college, and if she is too, then almost all colleges these days offer free counselling for students. She hasn't handled her grief well at this point, and with help quite possibly will be able to do better.Your role should be supportive, not romantic. When she's got herself back together, she'll remember what you did for her.Cole